Joeys Journal

6:27pm: CSS ... WTF?!?

Ummm ... I am really digging this Brazilian band. Let me know what you think. :) 

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10:14pm: Aaannnddd... I am back
HELLO L.J.!!! 

Its been awhile since I have wrote on here and after reflecting on a few of my previous post, I decided to start up again. I am back in the Pomona area after a 4 year stay in Seattle. It was an amazing experience where I learned about life, love, friends, drugs and music. After being laid off in October from my job, I had this itch to move back home to California, packed my shit and there is no looking back now.

It feels strange but at the same time very welcoming. Kinda missed it...

8:37am: Sick as a DOG!
So , today I called in . I woke up in a cold sweat and I have a splitting head ache. WTF! I am never sick. So I relocated to the couch with a jug of OJ and turned on Lord of the Rings : Return of the king. Sounds like a good combination to recovery.

7:32am: BBQ.
Big shout out to all the people that went to the BBQ on sunday. Sure beat club chub any day. Thank you all for the good times and big laughs. Hope I didnt get too violent. hehe Gabe . .. your the man thank you for organizing this shit. Well thats enough on that ... Off to work.

11:34pm: P.M.S. is NOT good for anyone.
Sarah has been suffering from PMS for the past 3 days !! GOOD GOD ! At first I heard it as a roar for help, so naturally I would become extremely helpful to make her PMS experience a smooth one. Well today she was alittle over bearing. Every little thing was blown out of the water. So finally I heard enough and I shhh'ed her... Sarah paused and began to tear up. At that point I know the wound was exposed and didnt want to aggravate the situation. We chatted about it and even with all that p.m.s. drama I know we are good and all channels are open.

Sarah is definitely one of my favorite people.

5:51pm: yo ...
SHIT ! So my computer finally crashed. I kinda miss being able to sign on at will :(. But life goes on and tomorrow is day 1 of computer shopping. I caught up with a few journals but didnt have time to post any replys. BIG HUGS and TUGS to all . I will be on soon.

10:12pm: Thai es muy bueno ...
So tonight Sarah and I ordered in. We ate this Bomb ass Thai food. We had this yummy spicy fried rice with shrip and that just kicked ass.We also ordered this yummy spicy chicken soup .So now my belly is nice and full. **grin

Now for desert .... hmmmm ??

5:59pm: hello ....
I know know ... I have a habit of disappearing but I wanted to wish everyone a Happy and safe Easter. I have been on a mini sebbatical and I am going to start posting alittle bit more. Life has thrown me a few fucked up curve balls but all in all ... life has been fuckin great.

3:58pm: Blah .....
Last night the coffee husband and I met up for dinner at this cute British Pub in Down Town Fullerton. We had a few pints and enjoyed there fish and chips. He is a super sweet guy and kept giving that super smile. We strolled around downtown Fullerton for a bit and just chit chatted about anything and everything which was quite nice. Plus the evening was absolutely beautiful. We then called it an early evening. We both had to be up at 4am!! **sigh. But I did get a Valentine hug and peck . **grin.

I am so fuckin tired. but so far today has been pretty kick ass. I had to work this morning at 4:15a ... I remember when I used to love working those shifts. But I am totally over those shifts. Today I am going to go hang out with socalgabe and do the Valentine thing. We are probably going to go to have dinner and do a little bar hoping ...who the fuck knows. The night is completely open. But if you see us out and about definitely come say hello .


Happy Valentines all you LJ peeps !!!!!

9:58pm: Everything Happens for a Reason
Well I am now back after all these months. I was off having this affair with hickory200 but that was just WAY too much drama. When I am in a relationship I like to give 100% commitment and I kind of expect the same from the other party. Well Paul and I had great times and pretty shitty times, but it was a relationship and the only way to keep things afloat is to both be willing to work out our differences. Well Paul and I had a huge fiasco in LA and it just all ended up being a huge argument. Couples argue . So that evening Paul decided that it would be best that we went to our own beds and sleep on it and talk about it the next day. We went our separate ways and I can admit that I was a little disappointed that it wasn't resolved. But I had to respect his wishes and just hang on till the next day. The next morning Paul crucified the whole evening on Live Journal. If you ask me that’s a HUGE FUCKIN HOOK!!!!!! I felt like I was in the sixth grade.Well that Post just killed it. I chatted with Paul and he was acting like a complete ass. Then the game we played 6 months ago were starting all over. Paul broke up with me and wanted to play that whole ... MAYBE JOEYCUB AND I CAN BE A COUPLE ?!?! ... game. I am so fuckin over games. I told Paul that he was over reacting and everything will be cool ... we just need to work it out. Then he said to me "thanks , but no thanks ". It was a little harsh but as long as it made Paul feel good its ok. But like I said I am not going to play these bullshit 6th grade games. So today around 12:30p I completely was my hands of all this Central Coast Drama that has invaded our peaceful Sunny So. Cal.. .... I say good day!!!!

But hey Live Journal Land ... No worries ... there is a light at the end of every tunnel. Joeycub will have a Valentines this Year. Today out of the blue Coffee Husband gave me a ring. perfect timing. We chit chatted for a bit and he is still cute as all heck. So we are going to go and have dinner and drinks on Friday.

WTF !! where did this come from ??

9:50am: Yeaheee !!
Usually I am never a movie buff. Ummm ... But I just cant wait for friends to see this movie . I have 2 bowls left to Friday and I just took the toilet paper tube and stuffed it full of fabric sheets. Yes, ladies and gentlemen .... I am off to the movies to smoke pot in the bathroom. I cant wait any longer for return of the kings. Well I will give a full report after I have seen it. till then

9:06am: So this weekend was a blast. I wanted to wish socalgabe a very happy birthday and I am still gathering that group of hot cubs and bears to give you that spanking we were talking about. Cheers Gabe . On Saturday we threw a mean ol shin dig at my pad to celebrate the birth of Gabe. We started the party at 7pm with a smash bros tournament. I finally had the pleasure to meet psilocub unfortunatly he couldn’t stay for the tournament but I am totally looking forward to kicking some ass next time we play. The tournament kicked ass and as thunderstorm would say in his mild country accent " Blue Team wins again". To no ones surprise. So lbchaser and I finally got to party. Damn for a little guy he can hold his own. He was always down for another beverage , toke , or whatever you threw his way. But the best part is that when he threw up , he threw up in the sink and cleaned his mess. He was handling his shit fucked up and he is always going to be on the VIP list for all the parties.

well off to work ....To be continued

6:05pm: Coffee Husband part IV
So I was ending my shift with a bang. Mochas were made trash was ran and I was ready to get home and put my feet up. I walked to the back to grab my bag and clock out ... suddenly Ioana ran back and said all quiet style " he is here , he is here ! " . I didn't know what the heck she was talking about then it clicked . " who Mike?" she said "yes, he walked in and asked if you were here and I said yes. He was so cute he adjusted his shirt when I told him you were.". So I walked out and there he was acting all cute style with his huge smile. I said to him " Where have you been all these weeks? " he smiled and basically told me that work has been kicking his ass and he is now in the kitchen. We chatted for a few and then I said " So whats up Mike? Why havent you used my number?" he looked at the ground all cute style and said " I am really REALLY sorry I havent used your number." and looked up and gave me the cutest little wink and a smile. Ioana made his beverage and then handed it off. She looked at me and said " so joe you better be going you have been here all day" and gave me alittle wink. I was getting why she wanted me to leave. So I said " well have a good evening ladies. Good evening Mike " and he said " wait I will walk with you out." . We walked to the door and opened the door for me and said " please you first" . WOW !! So he asked "which car is yours?" I showed him my little car and I asked ,as if I didnt know , what car was his. he pointed at his little black pickup and I said " oh the one with the equality sticker ? " . He laughed and said "is it that obvious?" I said "no not at all.". then somewhere in our conversation he then asked me " your not leaving this store are you ?" . I was like " No,no" then he said " Good, I dont want to have to start stalking you at your new store." and gave me that wonderful smile. So we were saying our good bye and I said ... "hey Mike ... enough of this bullshit...I would like your number" he smiled and said " you want MY number ?" So we exchanged numbers and re-said our goodbyes ... umm WOW ... what a great way to end my shift. WHO THE FUCK KNOWS WHERE THIS IS GOING TO GO !! But I am so ready for this crazy ride.

7:59am: Coffee Husband part III
So the coffee husband has been coming in later in the evenings. He is now working during the day as a server. So he usually swings by at the end of his shift. All my ladies have been fishing for any information and they did extremely well. My ladies say that he always asks for me when he comes in ... awww . And he even made a comment about how I am never there when he comes in. My ladies did the right thing and informed him that I normally work in the mornings. So yesterday morning he stopped in and it was my day off. :( He saw Ioana and said " hey I thought you said Joe works in the morning? Well let him know that I stopped by especially this morning to say hello.". Ioana called me after he left. Then my girl Gladyz fished out some good cheezme. He asked her when Gladyz and I are going to go down to his restaurant and have lunch. I thought to myself hmmm lunch ... let him serve me ... I am down . Plus the restaurant that he works at is extremely close to my pad. So now the question is ... should I go ? or shouldn't I go? If this cat really wanted to chat he would have used my number by now ... or maybe he is just shy. hmmm ... I am already pretty foreword .... any thoughts on the situation ??

6:55pm: Its healthy ....

YOU'RE CHUBBY HUBBY!


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9:15am: Happy Thanksgiving
Happy Thanksgiving everyone . I hope everyone has a wonderful day filled with friends and family and tons of delicious food. Eat up Boys and Girls.

7:05am: YAWN ....
Goodmorning Peeps ... heading out to work in a few but just wanted to leave you with this little message:

"There's a sunny side to EVERY situation"

I know some of my bitches have some drama in their lives and even for the ones who don't this quote will make life so much nicer. Have a great day.

11:02pm: Today the weather was absolutely beautiful. There were huge black and white thunder clouds scattered over the sky and the winds were blowing Finally around 4:00pm the clouds gave way and it started pouring . It was 'lets have some hot co-co and curl up by the fire weather." But my only concern is ... will it be raining tomorrow ?? Tomorrow I am going to the J. Paul Getty Meseum.I have only been to the Getty once and I am sure LA is going to look really clean from way up there. I wonder what the expo is ? We will see .... well peeps .... I am off to bed .goodnight


P.s.
Current song definitely holds some truth in my life. If you have it... listen to it .... if not ... check out the lyrics. Great fuckin song.

7:44pm: Just passing time .....
Life has definitely been crazy busy. Crazy but definitely having a good time. I haven’t seen or heard from my coffee husband for a few weeks, but its all good. I think it was good for me to put my shit out there like that because if he called ... it would have been all worth it. He could possibly be on a coffee break or times are tough ... who knows. Maybe one day he might be stuck drunk at a bar and need a ride home ... my number is in his wallet ... **wink Cheers to the coffee husband.

There is this dance club in Buena Park called OZZ. Now this dance club is not really my style. All the big boys have their eyebrows plucked, chest shaved , and they are the drag show host on Sundays. Just not my style. So after the whole BJs experience with the assistant manager , we cruised on over to OZZ for ONE drink. It was already 11:00p and I told Roy-Roy I had to work early and I was already buzzed. We had quite a few pints at BJs and one kick ass shot. So I was feeling pretty damn good. When we walked up the lesbian bouncer at the door just had a pissy attitude. So she snapped at me and I threw alittle shade. She knew I wasn’t having her negative bullshit. It was definitely uncalled for and everyone hates an angry lesbian. But later on she came and found me after I had a few shots and things were peachy-king. She apologized and of course I just started making small talk. And I told her " Girl, nobody likes an angry lesbian!" . She was cool after we chatted for a bit. There was two chubby boys at the bar that night. Boy number one big mean ol queen and she was wearing a black turtle-neck. I don't know if she knew that turtle necks went out in 1987. Boy number two was this 6' 215lb, blue eyes, shaved head , cute little goatee, nice firm tummy, nice arms, ... just an adorable guy. YUMMY cub !!! So I kept on glancing over at this guy and never did we make eye contact. So I thought " Fuck this bitch" and kept on lounging/ mingling and went about my business.. So Roy-roy and I were working our way to the patio and there he was right there in front of me. So a big ball of courage flew up my ass and I leaned over and asked him what his name was. From there it took off. By the end of the night he leaned over and stole a kiss. It was kinda cute. So we swapped numbers and by this time it was 2:00a. Fuck I was hating life the next day at work.

This weekend I got to spend time with socalgabe. He is an awesome character, definitely one of a kind. Both Gabe and I haven’t been out to Pistons for weeks and we missed the past few G&M. So we were playing alittle smash bros and we both got this urge to go hit up Pistons on G&M night. It was a kick ass time. we called skullosvibe and asked him if he wanted to join us. He did but I think he likes one-on-one time with people. He got drunk and then angry that we were all chit chatting and we were ignoring him. I thought to myself "baby, were not ignoring you .... your just not saying anything" but its all good. I Still love the guy . Gabe and I walked in and we saw tons of friends we haven’t seen in awhile. I got to see the qtnsoca clan. Its been awhile since I have seen those ladies. qtnsoca is more cuddly than ever... I miss chilling with that guy. There were tons of hot burly Cubs and Bears ... I didn't know where to begin. But I ended up playing it cool and let the boys come to me. It was definitely a fun night. We went back to Gabes pad and played alittle smash bros. THANKS socalgabe & thunderrstorm for teaching me the ways of Smash Bros. Without you I wouldn't be able to kick ass with Kirby.

After the whole Ozz experience I chatted with that guy like twice and yesterday he asked me if I wanted to do something that night . I said "sure like what?" he responded with a soft and sincere " I don’t care as long as I am with you". Awwww .... so finally he decided to drive out to Anaheim and go to dinner. I looked around at my pad and thought FUCK!! It was a mess .... well I worked miracles in an hour and a half. Sara went to take a nap and the house was filthy and she woke up to Mrs. Cleavers home. We went to norms and the conversation was nice and afterwards we cuddled up on the couch and watched a movie. Definitely a good 1st date. Who the fuck knows where this ones going to go. But he already called today and we are setting up another little dinner date. Go Team !

Ok peeps .... I know it was long. but it has been a long time. Thanks 31337zeke for just being an awesome guy. Your far away but definitely a sincere and passionate person that I can truly call a friend. lbchaser sorry your BBQ was rained out ... we need to make it happen sometime soon. Alright peeps Big Hugs and just remember " wash all the dicks you suck , hear?"

7:45am: Today was a beautiful day in Sunny OC . The skies were blue, tons of cloud formations , and the breeze was quite crisp , who could ask for anything more. One of the highlights of the day is that the smoke has completely cleared the skies. I can breath again . So I woke up this morning and received an invitation to go to lunch with this guy I had been chatting with for about 5 months. He is this yummy 25yo German cub here in Orange who has been trying to become my workout partner.

Q: Why did it take 5 months to meet?
A: Cause Joeycub has been a LAZY cub .

Well lunch was yummy and we sat on the patio. We met for like an hour but the entire time we chatted about some of the randomness’ things. Definitely good food and good company. We will probably do lunch or maybe even workout sometime. Cheers! lol and after we had lunch I went and had lunch with my family all balloon style.

Tonight I am meeting a few of my co-workers to bid farewell to our Assistant Manager. We're going to be beveraging it up at BJs. This place has the yummiest Chicago style pizza and the best part is that they have a micro brewery. That means they brew all their beers on site. Its not going to help the belly but its GREAT beer ! So I am off to beverage it up. Night

7:45am: wtf

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12:44am: Bad News Bears !!!
If you don't know this yet ... I work in the coffee business. Every day in the coffee business you make a little mocha , make a little latte and soon enough your days done. One of the perks of the coffee world is not all the caffeine but its all the hot men that come in. All different types and sizes ... its great and makes 6:15 am tolerable . After being in a store awhile you develop your favorites and pretty soon you find your ultimate favorite and he becomes your coffee husband . You give this customer the fastest and tastiest beverage ever. OYE ... I have had many in my coffee husbands in my life and trust me all of them I could have handled .... but never one like this one .

So this guy would always come in and I would prepare his beverage, shoot the shit with him and send him on his way. Soon enough he became a regular and I learned his beverage ... then along came his name. This guy would always come in with a big warm smile and he would silently mouth to me "hello Joe" and finish with that same big warm smile. APPLE PIE !! Super sweet guy and the conversation is interesting as well. So there was this one day that was particularly bright and I looked the window to the street and I saw this handsome stud in glasses. I squinted to see who it was .... and it was him. And then some crazy ass bullshit slipped from my mouth " Wow ... you look very handsome in glasses" he gave me that warm smile and said "aww thanks Joe" . We chatted for a bit ... made his beverage and he went along his way.

I didn't see him for a few weeks. I thought that was the end of him and I scared him away. I had all my ladies on the look out but no news. Then one day , in the middle of the rush, I look up and there he is grinning at me. I said " there you are guy ! Where have you been?? I have been watching the window waiting for your return" ... ok ok ... a little bold but he laughed. He smiled and said he went on vacation ... whew he wasn't scared. We chatted for a bit while I made his beverage and then at the time I just got my plugs. He was looking at my ears and said " cute. .. I like them " . finished our conversation and went along his way.

We had a few more encounters and soon enough I said " hey , here is my number . I am having a shin dig and you are most definitely invited" then he threw the ray of warm smile my direction and said " thanks " . No dice. I have never given my number out like that. Crazy. Well he never called. The party past and he missed a kick ass time. But its all good. Didn't see him for the next few weeks and I thought to myself. "Ok you finally scared the poor guy away." . But two days later there he was at the end of the line telling me how he had to play the friend role that night because one of his friends just ended a long term relationship. Of course I listened and made a little latte and ended with " Its all good ... there’s always next time." handed him his beverage and sent him on his way. Well somewhere through the Homosexual Grapevine I found out he was gay. This was a major plus in my book.

Today I was making a little beverage and I look up and there he was with that huge smile. It went like it usually goes but today he lounged by the bar for 10 min after his beverage was made. Hmmm .... he has never done this before. Thank god there wasn't any customers and I got to enjoy every second on it . He kept on making eye contact and just being a little flirty. I loved it. He was on his way out the door and I said " Hey ... Still have my number ?? " he pulled out his wallet and pulled out the little piece of paper I gave him . I said " Use it " . He shot me a huge smile and said " maybe I will " and turned and left . All the girls gave me mad props after he left.

Ok ... a little long. But I have a little crush on someone. So now what. lol

10:13am: Birthday Weekend !
Well today I am officially 23yo. I must say that 22 was a rough year. Plenty Ups and its fair share of downs but definintly a good year. No regrets and always looking twards tomorrow.

My Birthday party was bumping! Sarah took the night off work and played bartender. After awhile it started to taste like she was forgetting to add the juice. lol. All 3 of the neighbors from the front house came and chilled and they are always down for a beverage. badcub73 ... one of my OG bitches was there representing. Thanks for that mean ol Jack an Coke. skullosvibewas handling it ... from what I remeber . I remberr him s tons of weed and tons of great peole just chillin . socalgabe was a big part of this great party. He was in the smoking room the whole time. Well Great Times ... Great Beverages ... who could ask for anything more.

Today, my mother is making a traditional New Mexican meal. She is making yummy green enchiladas and also chile rellenos . YUMM YUMM !! So off to pomona to lounge with the family and do the family thing .

Happy Birthday tjsnout !! Thanks for making a cameo at the party. BIG HUGS!!

1:33pm: Hell and Back
My week ended with a sudden halt on Thursday directly after work. But at the end I felt accomplished . I felt that all the hard work is finally paying off. I received an 80% as an overall score and a 91 out of 114 on cleanliness. I was most pleased but definently over work at least for the weeknd. The whole rear-ending experience is finally being wrapped up and I decieded that going to Fulsom would have been extra stress. But its all good.

Thursday night was most fun. I met Miss Kim for drinks and dinner before we rolled out to West Hollywood. One of our mutual friends ,Frank, was throwing a huge rock-a-billy gig and he put us on the VIP list so fuck it, we went. GOOD TIMES! They had $3 New Castles and just a really chill environment. Franks friend Boz was playing his solo acoustic set and it was most enjoyable. I heard him with a full band before but the solo acoustic was just as good if not better. Oh and I now have a rock-a-billy huzban. He looks like Orland Bloom but with a sexy full sleeve tat and a heavy Irish accent. I couldn't stop glancing at him. I thought his bitch was going to fuck me up. Definently good times! Cheers!

As for the rest of the weekend ... No stress ... I have NO set plans and I am totally going with the flow. Just want it to be relaxing.

8:28pm: GRRRRR ....
Oye !! This week has been very stressful . Work is kicking my ass. Help! I will see the eye of the storm at 4:45pm tomorrow. But I wil have the weekend to kick off my shoes and sip on that ice cold new castle. Off to bed . Night